Definition 63.9.2. Let $S$ be a scheme. Let $U$ be a scheme over $S$. An étale equivalence relation on $U$ over $S$ is an equivalence relation $j : R \to U \times _ S U$ such that $s, t : R \to U$ are étale morphisms of schemes.

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